10 Reasons to JOIN US
The owners of this site have been successful over the years in bringing people together by resisting the useless systems adopted by most personals databases. Our unorthodox methods are successful and reflect the hard work and continual effort put into this site:
When considering other personals sites, here are 10 reasons why you should join us:
Personals sites either cater for romance themes or adult themes not both. They naively think they will attract the wrong type of client (and usually end up doing so because variety is not available). Email Affairs recognise men and women alike seek many themes during their dating and romance cycle and so we provide it all; romance, lust, sex professionals or just friendship.
We know the system where everyone is invited to place a free add DOES NOT WORK! These useless schemes might create large databases but the sort of people they attract are not willing to contribute the service we want to provide you. You then get a system with lots of male members and no ad replies! Email Affairs has a fair 'free' and 'pay' system where everyone wins!
Ladies join FREE - Guys have to PAY. Whilst you might think this to be a little unfair it is not so!!! Let's have a reality check for one moment :) Many women do not join personals sites because they get overrun with responses by the 1000's of guys that free sites allow to join. This in turn creates staggering ratios of fifty or more men to one woman!! Our system aims to correct this ratio and ensures only the genuine guys and ladies join us. This system has proved to be HUGELY popular with men and women alike for this reason with only a few die hard whiners missing out on the fun over equality issues. To ensure equity and value for money for our sexy guys, ladies are not entitled to use the XXX gallery without paying.
We monitor our ladies section very carefully and weed out time wasters and pretenders. FREE seeker Guys cannot join pretending to be ladies and reply to ladies thanks to a special system we have in place that spots this activity - the offender gets deleted and email/IP address banned.
We don't operate a 'date posted' ad system. These systems are inefficient in that people think that members who placed an ad a month ago are inactive when they are not! People these days are too busy to keep shuffling their ad back to the top of the list! We use an ad expiry system instead, which monitors members activity and reply rate. Members have only 14 days to reply to an ad! Otherwise their inactivity or lack of manners in not sending a simple 'no thanks' reply This is another example of how we monitor inactivity and remove members who are no longer active.
You can reply to as many ads as you wish without additional payment! We don't rip you off with a 'pay per reply' system. Those systems prove the website is out for your dollars and doesn't give a rats whether you meet someone or not! We WANT you to be successful and so allow you to reply to as many people you want to with no silly quota restrictions. Our ad reply system is also> VERY DISCREET and hides your email address from members until you are ready to give it out!
You can post pictures without moderation! We know that people who dare to be different get all the attention so we allow you to express yourself any way you see fit. As long as the photo is of you and a legal theme, we let you post it without moderation. This allows people in the Raunchy section to strut their stuff and show off what they believe to be their best assets! It can also be a source of great entertainment for other members whilst they are seeking their perfect partner.
Paying members get access to an AWESOME XXX Gallery to ensure your stay with us is as enjoyable online as it is offline when you meet other members from our site.
Membership cancellation is simple. We don't make it difficult like other sites. Click this Link and you will see that you can go straight to the cancellation system without fuss. That said, our average membership rate has been 15 months which speaks volumes for the enjoyment people have got from our site!
If you are unsuccessful meeting others during your paying membership period and if you have been with us for 6 months we will give you the opportunity to extend your personals membership another 3 months for FREE! (Does not give you access to XXX Gallery)



